Holiday shopping can be daunting— especially when you’ve got a large list of loved ones to shop for… and no idea how to start. There are many blogs filled with gift ideas— but, not very many articles dedicated to adults with disabilities. So, we decided to change that. Of course, shopping for disabled adults is similar to shopping for any of your other loved ones. But there are some additional things to consider as you make your holiday list. Here are our thoughts to help you this season:
Is your gift accessible?
Before purchasing a gift, ask yourself the question: is this fully accessible for my disabled loved one? It might seem obvious, but some things are inaccessible in ways you’d not expect.
— Example: A person with a physical disability may have difficulty using a gift that is too heavy or hard to open/access.
— Example: A person with a developmental disability may encounter an issue with a gift that has hard-to-understand instructions or controls.
Most adults with disabilities are on a limited income
This means that disabled adults often don’t have enough resources to spend on things beyond the very basics (and sometimes not even that). So, don’t be afraid to ask them what they need. Opening a dialogue about this will allow your loved one to share their unique perspectives with you.
— Example: Your disabled loved one may have a cell phone/tablet that is in need of replacing, but they are unable to afford a new one. Perhaps you, or a group of loved ones, could get together and help them buy one.
— Example: Your disabled loved one might have a limited budget for food. Offer to take them grocery shopping, and then cook some of their favorite meals together— stocking their freezer in the process!
A fun outing also makes a great gift
Due to transportation and/or income barriers, it can be difficult for adults with disabilities to attend public events they might enjoy— like a concert, a day at the zoo, a professional sports game, or a live theatre production. So, ask them what they’d love to do— and make it happen. (Plus, it’s a major bonus that you get to spend time together.)
— Example: Your loved one adores figure skating. So, buy tickets to Disney on Ice, and make a day of it.
— Example: Your loved one is a big fan of sports. Take them to a baseball game or for a day of putt-putt golf.
No matter how you choose to mark the holidays, another great way to show your commitment to your disabled loved one is to be an ally. Support the cause of disability inclusion… and passionately fight for the policies and programs that help to make their lives better and more independent. (For ideas on how to be an ally, read these articles: Legislation for Inclusion and Defining an Advocate
Lastly, we want to wish you all a safe, healthy and happy festive season. May it be filled with joy and all the things, and people, you care about.
Happy Holidays from all of us at Anthesis!
P.S. This Giving Tuesday, consider a gift to Anthesis. It’s a great way to support the continued work we do to empower the lives of disabled adults in our community. Donate the gift of holiday cheer to participants at Anthesis here!